Today’s entry in the Tao Te Ching is the One. It speaks of differences between doing and being, but the funny thing is that doing is called “being”—a bit confusing, I know, but stick with me.
Raw Silk and Uncut Wood
Stop being holy, forget being prudent,
it’ll be a hundred times better for everyone.
Stop being altruistic, forget being righteous,
people will remember what family feeling is.
Stop planning, forget making a profit,
there won’t be any thieves and robbers.But even these three rules
needn’t be followed; what works reliably
is to know the raw silk,
hold the uncut wood.
Need little,
want less.
Forget the rules.
Be untroubled.
Translator Ursula K. LeGuin notes that “raw silk” and “uncut wood” are images traditionally associated with the characters su (simple, plain) and p’u (natural, honest).
Emotional well-being comes from God and it should be simple and natural. After all, He’s asking only that you be who He created you to be. But is it ever simple and natural? Not likely. Most of us have been forced off track by parents trying to mold us, teachers crushing our spirit, friends telling us what’s cool and what’s not, church leaders judging us.
I’ll likely always think of this entry in the Tao (no. 19) as the Dragon Scroll one, because when we talk about the important stuff, I often remind my kids of the Dragon Scroll in Kung Fu Panda. Everyone thought that the scroll would tell the Dragon Warrior what to do, but it was blank—and reflective. That was the important part. When Po unwound the scroll, all he saw was an image of himself. To be the Dragon Warrior, he needed to believe that he was the Dragon Warrior. He needed to be who he was meant to be, and that would lead him down the right path.
Lao Tzu tells us to “stop being holy, forget being prudent.” That’s where the confusion might arise, but consciously being those things is no different from doing them, because the rational mind/ego is in charge. When you’re acting from your soul, being your True Self, though, you don’t think about what you’re doing or why you’re doing it. It’s just right for you and you know it. God knows it.
I think that few of us are ever taught how critically important it is to be our True Selves, but Lao Tzu tried, sure that, “it’ll be a hundred times better for everyone.”
100% agree - that was an issue for me - Between a merciful God and those who bahaved and those who didn’t (black and white) - The other part for me was if these things that come natural for me then am I supposed to do more - then feeling mighty for doing more - it was all to much- And Like we talked before about comparing outselves to other homeschoolers and the pressure to know and do such and such and read such and such etc etc etc made me feel less then and a bad Catholic - I’m starting to feel more like myself without all the self imposed ( and institutional imposed) rules.
I do things cause they are part of me - And they happen to be “Christian things to do” - But I do them cause they are who I am and make me happy- It took me a long time to realize that they truly were me and not me trying to “do the things” were supposed to do which everyone kept telling me I needed to do - Which lead to so much confusion about how do I be a better Christian